Bitter Criticism ?

Yes, when we are working with something, we will face a certain amount of criticisms. Either it is purposely to improve things, or to degrade others. Something that i 've learned so far, the working culture in our society - either being aggressive or defensive. People dictate, when you're being too defensive, normally you're not accepting your weaknesses, or vice versa. One way to another, we should find a delicate balance between these extremities. It is not easy, yet it is possible. In life, we will always have to face criticism, when people finding fault in you, which sometimes onslaught you like an interminable war, showing no sign of ending. As long as you shine, give, produce, and have effect on others, then disapproval and condemnation will be your lot in life.

Well, here something to contemplate, a person who is sitting on the ground does not fall. Therefore, their anger toward you can be attributed to you surpassing them in righteousness (unless you have done something wrong!), knowledge, and wealth. In their eyes, unless you abandon your talents, and strip yourself of all great qualities in you, ~ you're their enemy. By doing those things, you become stupid, nothing and loser. This is exactly what they want from you. The best way ? ~ forgive them and showing them the most beautiful manners. Turn away from them and do not feel distressed (or try to reduce it) by their schemes. It reminds me of my teacher, she told us this:

"Hanya pohon yang berbuah sahaja yang akan dibaling orang"

Yes, you will not be able to silence them (it is for sure). But you will be able to bury their criticisms. In our life, we can choose, either to be distracted by them, or not to be. We always have options. Just remember one thing, we cannot control others, but we can control ourself. So, when you feel like being annoyed, think ~ either it is worth it or not. You're the captain of your heart, leader of your soul. Life is not a bed roses, and it is not a crown of thorns either ! So, have fun!